What happens when you quit masturbation, break free from porn addiction/PMO, and take the time to reboot your brain?
All sorts of good stuff! NoFapās benefits can be so impressive that some people view them as practical superpowers. Here are the benefits Iāve personally experienced from NoFap.
A little background
I am a 27-year-old guy. My history with porn might be different than most guys my age. I got married at age 19 and was lucky/blessed enough to not discover internet porn until my marriage fell apart at age 22-23.
Soon enough porn use went from something I did occasionally to an everyday thing. As a Christian I was always pretty internally conflicted about watching porn, and I also realized how bad it made my brain feel. At age 25 I began trying to quit porn, and at 26 I learned about the NoFap movement and managed to quit it for good.
After several near-relapses I learned about sexual transmutation ā how to transmute sexual energy into something more valuable. Sexual transmuation work turned NoFap into something sustainable. Nowadays I find abstaining from porn and masturbation pretty easy!
NoFap superpowers: what I experienced
Some of the benefits Iāve experienced from NoFap are shared by a lot of people in the NoFap community…others, not so much. Everyone is different.
Itās also worth stating that I personally experience more benefits from semen retention than from NoFap. Whatās the difference between these two practices?
- Semen retention means no masturbation AND no sex (or sex without ejaculation, which takes practice)
- NoFap means no masturbation but doesnāt really prohibit sex
That being said, most of the benefits below are things Iāve experienced from both NoFap and semen retention. (Iāll elaborate on this in each subsection). These benefits are listed in the order that I experienced them, beginning with the changes I noticed first :
- More appreciation for the little things
- More confidence
- Clear, glowing skin
- Faster-growing hair
- A deeper voice
- More attraction
- More motivation and inspiration
- A newfound understanding of masculinity
More appreciation for the little things
Onset time: 1 week post-fap
The first benefit I experienced after first abstaining from PMO was a subtle one: more appreciation for the little things in life.
It took about a week of NoFap for me to realize just how enjoyable everyday activities could be. Whether it was driving around listening to a favorite song, watching an old movie, or walking through the woods, life began to feel vibrant and alive again.
This particular benefit has only gotten more pronounced with time. Life seems to get almost magical after 30+ days, likely due to dopamine receptors regaining their sensitivity.
More confidence
Onset time: 1-2 weeks post-fap
Increased confidence is the next benefit to show up in full force. I tend to notice this confidence kick in by the 2-week mark, and itās typically a symptom of just feeling really good in general. Itās hard not to feel good when youāre 100% guilt-free!
Confidence doesnāt always increase linearly, though. It may increase and decrease throughout the 2-3 week period, especially if youāre going through a āflatlineā period.
Increased confidence is likely related to rising testosterone levels. Donāt be surprised if you notice a wide variety of benefits as your free T increases.
Clear, glowing skin
Onset time: 2 weeks post-fap
The idea that NoFap could make you more attractive is one of the most controversial ideas surrounding this journey. Some people claim itās pure pseudoscience. Once youāre past the age of 25, they say, your looks rarely change for the better. Right?
Not according to many NoFappers – myself included. Iāve noticed my skin become significantly clearer and more vibrant from NoFap. While this benefit takes a while to kick in, itās absolutely noticeable. After 2+ weeks of NoFap I find myself reliably getting carded for alcohol again. Donāt be surprised if friends and family tell you youāre looking healthy, too.
Faster-growing hair
Onset time: 3-4 weeks post-fap
This is another benefit that seems too good to be true…except itās not. NoFap tangibly boosts hair growth, at least for me. Iāve noticed my hairline slowly improves on long NoFap streaks, too, and Iām not the only one whoās noticed such things.
A deeper voice
Onset time: 4 weeks post-fap
Iāll be fully honest here: Iāve had a quiet, almost childlike voice for pretty much my entire adult life. NoFap alone hasnāt been enough to make my voice deeper. On full-blown semen retention, though, my voice becomes noticeably deeper around the 4-week mark to really set in.
Rising testosterone levels are likely responsible for the vocal deepening many NoFappers notice, though there may be more to it than that. A book from the early 1900s, The Eye of Revelation, claims that this particular benefit is due to a sort of rebalancing of the energy vortexes, or chakras:
āDo you realize that when one has made a study of menās voices he can tell instantly how much masculine vitality a man possesses just by hearing him speak? […] The Vortex at the base of the neck has power over the vocal cords,ā the book explains.
āThis Vortex and the one below in the sex center are directly connected. […] Now all that is necessary to speed up these two Vortexes, along with the others, is to practice the Five Rites.ā
In other words, sexual transmutation may lead to a deeper, louder, more masculine voice. This might sound like broscience, but itās something I can vouch for personally!
More attraction
Onset time: 4+ weeks post-fap
Female attraction is one of the most talked-about benefits of NoFap. Heck, what guy doesnāt want to be desired by attractive women?
What Iāve noticed, however, is that NoFap doesnāt just make you more sexually attractive to the opposite sex. It makes you more attractive in general. After 4+ weeks of NoFap Iām more likely to encounter attractive women, respectful men, and promising opportunities. Thereās something truly magnetic about a long NoFap streak.
Thereās one potential downside to this benefit, though, particularly if you lack self-control. You might find yourself suddenly eligible to have sex with more women! If a monogamous sex life is what youāre after, youāll have to get used to saying ‘ānoā…
More motivation and inspiration
Onset time: 4+ weeks post-fap
Iām among the many fapstronauts thatās found themselves more motivated after a long NoFap streak. After 4+ weeks of abstinence I feel ready to conquer the world. (Or at least my personal goals.)
A newfound understanding of masculinity
Onset time: 4+ weeks post-fap
Many of us werenāt brought up with a father that taught us what it meant to be a man.
With the assistance of NoFap, though, Iāve found it easier to rediscover my center and realize what masculinity is all about. Today I feel more confident, more stoic, more steadfast, more kind, and more masculine than at any previous point in life.
Admittedly this benefit is a little difficult to describe. You may have to try NoFap for yourself to really get a grasp of it!
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